Note to social networking sites: “Them” is plural

I know I’m not the only one bothered by this: the laziness shown by social networks with the use of the word “them.” Facebook, LinkedIn, pretty much every social networking site I can think of uses “them” instead of saying him or her when referring to a specific user. “You might know Mr. X — would you like to add them?” No, no, I wouldn’t like to add them. I would like to add him.

The reason I’m particularly annoyed about this is that every one of these sites asked for your gender. So they know whether I’m a him or a her. And most of them aren’t so socially progressive that they offer gender options other than male/female, which might provide the excuse of ‘it’s complicated.’ Seriously, please, fix this horrible grammar.

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2 Responses to “Note to social networking sites: “Them” is plural”

  1. Cherrie Says:

    Oh, how such a simple yet poignant rant has brightened up my day.

    Grammar-snob. =P

  2. lukewalker Says:

    My grammar isn’t perfect, but that one IS pretty bad, you have to admit ;) Glad I could bring a bit of sunshine to your day :)

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